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TRUTH: Couples Can Turn Conflict into Connection

DESIGNED BY UNSPLASH “Peace is not the absence of conflict, it is the ability to handle conflict by peaceful means.” ~ Ronald Reagan Recently, I was talking with a family member who was low-key bragging about how he and his new wife of one year “never fight.” I was a little stunned…both by this claim and

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conflict to connection

TRUTH: Couples Can Turn Conflict into Connection

DESIGNED BY UNSPLASH “Peace is not the absence of conflict, it is the ability to handle conflict by peaceful means.” ~ Ronald Reagan Recently, I was talking with a family member who was low-key bragging about how he and his new wife of one year “never fight.” I was a little stunned…both by this claim and

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WHEN MOTHER’S DAY IS HARD, THERE IS HOPE
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When Mother’s Day is Hard, There is Hope

DESIGNED BY UNSPLASH “Mother is a verb. It’s something you do. Not just who you are.” ~ Cheryl Lacey Donovan The other day, I got an email from a major corporation saying that Mother’s Day is upon us and they recognize it may be triggering for some so they included an option to mute their

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HOW HONESTY CAN SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
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How Honesty Can Save Your Relationships

DESIGNED BY UNSPLASH “Honesty is more than not lying. It is truth telling, truth speaking, truth living and truth loving.” ~James E. Faust When we talk about honesty in relationships, our minds often go straight to deception–to lies, to manipulation, to ruined relationships. We think about honesty in relationships in terms of whether someone lies

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JOKES ASIDE: THE POWER OF LAUGHTER
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Jokes Aside: The Power of Laughter

DESIGNED BY UNSPLASH “Laughter heals all wounds, and that’s one thing that everybody shares. No matter what you’re going through, it makes you forget about your problems. I think the world should keep laughing.” – Kevin Hart Do you know how powerful smiling and laughing is?  While it takes 47 muscles to frown, it only

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FEELING POWERLESS? LET’S NOT LEAVE IT UP TO ST. PATRICK!
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Feeling Powerless? Let’s Not Leave it Up to St. Patrick!

DESIGNED BY UNSPLASH “Luck only exists if you create it yourself. Create the opportunities.” ― Mwanandeke Kindembo We all have times where we feel powerless, helpless, and at the mercy of our life circumstances. Maybe we have experienced a devastating loss or we are going through a difficult transition, and we just feel stuck. At

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PERFECTLY IMPERFECT: OVERCOMING PERFECTIONISM ONE DAY AT A TIME
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Perfectly Imperfect: Overcoming Perfectionism One Day at a Time

DESIGNED BY UNSPLASH “Perfectionism is not a quest for the best. It is a pursuit of the worst in ourselves, the part that tells us that nothing we do will ever be good enough.” — Julia Cameron Several years ago, my friend made a quilt for her brother for Christmas. Because she is a novice

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WHEN THE PAIN OF RELATIONSHIPS DAMPENS VALENTINE’S DAY
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When the Pain of Relationships Dampens Valentine’s Day

DESIGNED BY UNSPLASH When your heart is broken, you plant seeds in the cracks and you pray for rain.” — Andrea Gibson Valentine’s Day is nigh upon us. It is a day of love, hugs, happiness, chocolates, roses, and romance…but for some, it is anything but that. Some of us are struggling with finding or

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